Thoughts on Scuba diving
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dagibbsLast night I was asked when I was going to take up scuba diving. It is a tough question, one of a couple tough questions that were put to me.
Scuba diving sounds like a lot of fun, I think I'd really enjoy it, but I don't know if I have room in my life. There are two main issues, time and money. I've already got more than one moderately expensive and potentially time consuming hobbies in my life. Motorcycling, dance lessons, SF conventions, that I'm actively doing. Also, there's downhill skiing, which I used to do more, but haven't done as much lately (like almost none in the last couple years) and which I also miss. Then, there's owning a home in ongoing renovation, and the costs (and time) associated with that. Oh, and having a girlfriend... and lots of other friends, and doing some gaming. Not to speak of having a job. If I didn't have a job, I'd have so much more time for a hobby.
And it looks like scuba diving would be both fairly expensive: lessons, tanks, gear, contact lenses to start up, then refills and travel once started. (And, I'll bet scuba gear doesn't travel well on a motorcycle, I think it is too big and bulky.) And, fairly time consuming -- though the amount of time would be flexible, I think.
Then, there's lessons in a chlorinated pool -- I don't particularly like chlorine, and it will probably trash my hair. Still, that can be dealt with.
I wonder what the male-female ratio is? (I get the feeling there are more male divers than female.)
I'm really enjoying the dance lessons, and![[livejournal.com profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/external/lj-userinfo.gif)
leolac and I are going to continue when this set of lessons runs out.
And, I miss playing bridge, and to some extent Go. Though, I'm playing Go online and that's working out pretty well. And, really, I'm not getting as much reading done as I'd like, either. And there's a MMPOG that I'd been playing in pretty regularly, but now have dropped out of, due to not enough time.
Anyone want to pay me to not work? Or give me a day-extender, to give me 30 hour days?
So, I don't know. What am I willing to give up? Am I willing to give something up to make space in my life, and in my budget, for this? Just how much space in my budget will it need?
Scuba diving sounds like a lot of fun, I think I'd really enjoy it, but I don't know if I have room in my life. There are two main issues, time and money. I've already got more than one moderately expensive and potentially time consuming hobbies in my life. Motorcycling, dance lessons, SF conventions, that I'm actively doing. Also, there's downhill skiing, which I used to do more, but haven't done as much lately (like almost none in the last couple years) and which I also miss. Then, there's owning a home in ongoing renovation, and the costs (and time) associated with that. Oh, and having a girlfriend... and lots of other friends, and doing some gaming. Not to speak of having a job. If I didn't have a job, I'd have so much more time for a hobby.
And it looks like scuba diving would be both fairly expensive: lessons, tanks, gear, contact lenses to start up, then refills and travel once started. (And, I'll bet scuba gear doesn't travel well on a motorcycle, I think it is too big and bulky.) And, fairly time consuming -- though the amount of time would be flexible, I think.
Then, there's lessons in a chlorinated pool -- I don't particularly like chlorine, and it will probably trash my hair. Still, that can be dealt with.
I wonder what the male-female ratio is? (I get the feeling there are more male divers than female.)
I'm really enjoying the dance lessons, and
leolac and I are going to continue when this set of lessons runs out. And, I miss playing bridge, and to some extent Go. Though, I'm playing Go online and that's working out pretty well. And, really, I'm not getting as much reading done as I'd like, either. And there's a MMPOG that I'd been playing in pretty regularly, but now have dropped out of, due to not enough time.
Anyone want to pay me to not work? Or give me a day-extender, to give me 30 hour days?
So, I don't know. What am I willing to give up? Am I willing to give something up to make space in my life, and in my budget, for this? Just how much space in my budget will it need?
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Re: *grin*
Date: 2005-08-16 10:40 am (UTC)Re: *grin*
Date: 2005-08-16 10:58 am (UTC)We decide a couple of the key issues were. One was social togertherness -- if you invite one, you expect the other, because of being a social unit; if one is entertaining or hosting, both are -- a couple is a social unit of two (or more, in the poly sense sometimes). The second was an expectation of long-termness, an unbounded or indefinite length of time the relationship was expected to continue -- not neccessarily that it would be permanent as people do change, but that there was no short-term point of change or termination expected in the relationship.
I (and we) do not feel we really qualify on either part of those conditions.